95-98% percent of the people on this earth will disagree with me on this point.
It involves a term called reasonableness.
It involves an idea, that it is OK to cheat just a little on your goals. It involves the idea you need to completely balance all your dynamics in life. Dynamics meaning all that you do in life meaning your personal life, your family, the groups you belong in, as well as mankind, should equally take up your attention and intention units. The bottom line of this is that it is simply not true. That you should do this or trust anyone with the idea they should do this, which if done will bring about complete success is false. Only those who stay the course and shut out the thoughts of it being ok to allow just a little slack are undermining the survival of not just their own universe but that of every one else. Most people, I mean at least 95- 98 % or more will find this extreme to the point of fanatical and will dismiss it as very strange. As in the movie “Divergent” you see the fractions assume a way of life as true without question. The idea that you have even freewill to decide your own fate which makes it seem you have all the freedom in the world, is simply an illusion to the many. All our freedoms eventually get stripped in our societies and we all are carefully coerced into buying into it. Only a few of us will see what is happening as in “Divergent”. And it is those few who see through this illusion as false, and are doing something about it, we must give respect to, yet they are looked at as fanatical, strange and actually irritating to the masses. Those who are trying to control the masses for their own gain find the divergent ones also very irritating. The bottom line to what I am saying will mostly fall on deaf ears and will be dismissed as, to radical. Only the divergent will see the truth in these matters. There are fractions , individuals or divergent groups which the human race is dependent on and like I said most all people will ditch this idea but that is ok . I am not addressing this to all people, only to those who are divergent. I give this very small advice that in more ways than one should not be taken lightly. It is simply this. Do not allow yourself or other people to make it ok to slack or to tell you it is ok to slack off just a little but understand that you must succumb to this thought just a tad so as not to completely invalidate the majority, because if the majority was completely invalidated the majority could actually slow things down to a point where the divergents would slow down, so every one loses. So again, in regards to your goals, in regards to group goals do not allow yourself the so called luxury of being reasonable to much or to long because it is human nature to allow reasonableness to go to far. A simple example: “one small tiny piece of cake will not hurt , one bite full should not hurt, just a bit of rest should be OK , deviating just this one time never could hurt anything, it all sounds so good yet it is not the small bite that hurts or the little bit of rest that hurts it is the fact that one can lose the whole idea of where one is going that will kill it dead because one bite can lead to another and then another. Yes you say they or that person lacks discipline or vision or purpose. No, that person has fallen to reasonableness as it is a mechanism set up to make us fail individually and fail as a group. So to make sure you make it, as well as all of us, it will depend on how well you hold the line on reasonableness. It will never be popular. It should never be even talked about for the majority will smother it as absurd and will look at you with a certain type of disgust. They will all work at suppressing it in a covert or overt way. It is best to keep it to yourself and press on to do all that it takes to reach your goals especially on the lines of greater survival not only for your self but everyone. It is only when you succeed can you begin to invite others to follow and even then many will still try to bring you down. Align with others who may understand. This will give you the resolve to move forward and achieve what you need to achieve. Godspeed, to flourish and prosper for yourself and all of humanity. My hat is off to the divergent who seek to bring about a better life for all mankind in any way possible and not succumb to the reasonableness of the majority.