Patience and understanding of what seems like an aberration of another is the virtue of all virtues. We all require respect for our beliefs. Everyone is doing their best to make it through life. The true one to watch for, is the one who overtly or covertly is suppressing your goals, targets and dreams. Some people are effective, others not so much, some operate on ideas that make good things happen, and others do not. Importance’s come across as mishmash and sometimes make no sense. There is only one thing to know. To be at cause you need to incorporate all the nonsense to produce the desired effect. Being at affect of the nonsense renders you ineffective , null and void. Leaders usually stand outside of this and have a clear sense of purpose and direction that bypasses this nonsense, via good communication skills. Not only should leaders obtain this skill but we all should. To be effective; patience, understanding, purpose and positive action on that purpose must mesh together and all the while having a good understanding of what good communication skills consist of. Anyone interested in what basic communication skills consist of, just let me know, I can direct you to a great source.
Patience and understanding of what seems like an aberration of another is the virtue of all virtues. We all require respect for our beliefs. Everyone is doing their best to make it through life. The true one to watch for, is the one who overtly or covertly is suppressing your goals, targets and dreams. Some people are effective, others not so much, some operate on ideas that make good things happen, and others do not. Importance’s come across as mishmash and sometimes make no sense. There is only one thing to know. To be at cause you need to incorporate all the nonsense to produce the desired effect. Being at affect of the nonsense renders you ineffective , null and void. Leaders usually stand outside of this and have a clear sense of purpose and direction that bypasses this nonsense, via good communication skills. Not only should leaders obtain this skill but we all should. To be effective; patience, understanding, purpose and positive action on that purpose must mesh together and all the while having a good understanding of what good communication skills consist of. Anyone interested in what basic communication skills consist of, just let me know, I can direct you to a great source.
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If you have the guts, life will always come up roses. It is as simple as just following through, but it can be as tough as the density of a diamond if at any point along the way you pause and start to give up or even get stuck in a maybe. Know where you are going, with full attention and intention and make it be so. Life will become more idealistic after you understand how to tend to your own garden. To many times people look over the fence and see greener pastures and want to jump the fence to get there. You cannot blame them. The thing is, if you do not know how to take care of weeds and tend your garden, how can your garden ever stay green and aesthetic, those greener pastures may produce sour grapes. So what to you do then? Your life will forever be looking for greener pastures. The importance of how to attend to your garden gets lost and forgotten, but in the long run if attention and intention is applied to learning how to work your garden you can make your own green pastures. The biggest bug is how you select the decisions to get there and not get lost in the woods. The safest bet is to look at your situation and go with what seems the most survival, the most positive. If working with another or others go with the higher standard. Fertilize your thoughts with virtuous ideas. Never give up on your garden. Believe it can be all you can envision it to be. Your garden will become paradise and every other garden will pale in comparison. Do not let Adam or Eve poison it with covert hostilities. Weeds such as this can kill your garden faster than a swarm of locust. It is a constant battle to have a beautiful garden and at times it may seem not to be worth the effort. So the question becomes, do we give up on paradise, because the bugs are too big or do we know in our hearts it is the right thing to do and just get a bigger stick. Learn to create your own garden and have it be all it can be. The pride and joy of doing this far surpasses visiting and hoping to be part of another’s garden. Until the next time . signed anonymous Closing thought Just watering your garden is not enough ,when you care enough about pulling the weeds , the flowers will grow yeah I know, this thought must come from another strain , of another life and maybe even another planet. A new revelation or cognition which comes from the study of ethics I have been doing.
Have you ever considered how influence able you are? Let’s assume you are your own person and you believe what you believe and you consider yourself an unbiased person, no one can tell you what to believe. Now let us say your best friend spreads a rumor about your wife, husband or partner. He says she seems a little on the lazy side and let’s say it was just done in jest, nothing serious even done with a smile, not even serious about it, just a small little evaluation. Now because you are not affected by things like this you make no matter about this OR DO YOU? On a scale of 1 – 10 you may give it, not even a one in regards to how this comment may influence you. My thought s on this are that it influences you much more than you may think. You may act, the next time you see your partner just a hair harsher about her or he relaxing just a hair to much. You never attribute this feeling to a comment made earlier. Just how many comments do you have to hear about something (and of course theses comments are of a more negative nature) before you start to really be a little upset. You then say this is the way I feel, I have standards. But I ask whose standards. Of course you say they are your standards. But the real question is, are they ? and the so called answer can come back , yes . What does it matter whose, for this is the way I feel about this. And of course you cannot argue with that My point is this. It is always best, not to spread negative considerations about others. Let others be who they are. Inspire others by your own actions, if you feel ill will towards someone, it may be because of others and their considerations. Be in the moment. Enjoy the moment without bias; no one is perfect on this earth, not even you. When people are admired for their strengths and virtues they rise up to those expectations. When people are scorned for their vices, they bite back with vengeance; because you are exposing wrongness with the person from which they either know it is true or not, it pays no matter. If not a sore spot it becomes one. They must protect themselves with reasons why, even if they are bad reasons. Nobody wins with this kind of communication. Yes it proves rightness of one over another, but you need to ask yourself this. Does proving oneself right promote the greatest survival and happiness for all. Then coming back to what I started with; Take a look at who might be spreading negative feelings, ideas and rumors about another. This could be a reason why you might be in argument. You can be as ambitious as you can be . You could be doing almost everything right . You could even have a lot of energy to put toward your goals. But if there is any discord in ones private relationships success in ones endeavors will never truly see the light of day. You can pretend things are ok , you could be at so called peace , you can say things are not to bad , you can say you have your moments but, if you do not put as much importance into that relationship as you do your own particular passions, life will turn up lemons rather than lemonade. Failure is a thing we fear. We most fear the idea of failure. We fear the ridicule, we fear the stigma, we fear the pain. Our minds are geared to protect us from this. This is a booby trap because what it does is entrap us. It keeps us in our place. Fear and failure make up the bars to our cell. We all have our reasons why it cannot be done. If someone points out the flaws in our reasoning we will dam them forever or protect our reasons vehemently. For as humans we cannot be wrong in our reasons. To be wrong would be a type of failure. So as you see we are all in a vicious trap. If you go on line, you will find dozens of clichés celebrating the inevitability of failure and the importance of learning from it. But in real life- and in real companies- failure is loathed. We are afraid of it. We avoid it. We get penalized for it. We learn that if you fail you are a loser, you are no good, you become mocked. Our self esteem goes down and we even get to the point of not trying anymore. It takes a lot of courage, and drive and many other words to even understand how important failure is to success. Look at any point in your life and you will see your greatest victories came when you took the greatest risks. And yes you could have failed and you may have, before you succeeded A short quote from Michael Jordan a famous basketball player "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." If you're not achieving the success you want, chances are you're not failing enough. Mathematically, as long as you're taking calculated risks, the more shots you take the more points you'll score. While it can be hard to see at the time, lessons learned the hard way are the most valuable. Some of the “greats” say go for failure. Which obviously means you will be going for success. |
Mike Sakkestad
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