When someone sees something totally opposite from you they are right in their own universe. If I want to have my way, I must see their point of view, if I am ever going to have a chance to convince them otherwise. It needs to be done with sincerity, concern, care, patience, tolerance, and understanding. Sometimes even a lot of Communication. Doing this in apathy is not advised, but doing it in strong interest is most beneficial. Suggestion to get your way then becomes much stronger than demand could ever be. It is all about getting a person’s own willingness to do, be or look than be forced, coerced, or tricked into looking, being or doing.
I think if this could be mastered, anyone who could apply it, could have more success in their daily life.