When speaking to someone it is wise not to prove your rightness to someone but to acknowledge what the other person thinks as right or true. Truly understand where this person is trying to come from. And even try to support them in how they feel . Even to the point where you can try to meet their needs . You can then express your needs and feeling about the subject without accusation, look for a shared reality, look at coming to agreement .Acknowledge each other. Begin again a closer affinity for each other .Look and do more communication now and in the future. Which in the end brings you both to better understanding. more detail was said on a previous blog but I think everyone to one degree or another needs to remind themselves of this truth . If in fact, it may be a truth.
Mike Sakkestad
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