Not only do I take responsibility for everything but have unconditional love. A give, give, give, attitude. Do not blame others for your own lack of cause or push, or wherewithal. Take full responsibility to make it go right for your group, be it your marriage, your family, your friends, your employer, your employees or your spiritual group. You have the responsibility to make it all go well ,go right, without prejudice without remorse, without disgust, without blame, without anger, without doubt, without being a victim ,but take responsibility in joy, glee, excitement, enthusiasm. You cannot force people to change but you can motivate through your own actions of responsibility, of care, of concern. You do not force help on any one, it is offered and then with good communication, you bring to understanding what may need to be done to create better conditions . You gain this by getting the other parties full cooperation and passion. Acknowledge something they are right about, respect their ideas,look pass any aberrations or non survival tendencies that may surface.
You can be responsible even by being flippant and insouciant. Your goal is to be completely pan determined( meaning you take responsibility for yourself as well as the other person or thing you are working with , a win- win scenario) You take the attitude that there is just no other way to be than this way. You do this of your own accord. It is not mandatory . It is self determined. It is the most survival way to live.
You can be responsible even by being flippant and insouciant. Your goal is to be completely pan determined( meaning you take responsibility for yourself as well as the other person or thing you are working with , a win- win scenario) You take the attitude that there is just no other way to be than this way. You do this of your own accord. It is not mandatory . It is self determined. It is the most survival way to live.